Wednesday, 3 June 2009

Charmed, I’m Sure...

Here’s one for the Trivial Pursuit players.
Did you know that the word polite comes from the jewellery trade?
It’s only once gem stones have been cut and polished to perfection that they can be described as ‘polite’.
I found this interesting because, it puts the onus of ‘politeness’ on the transmitter, rather than the recipient.
Of course, politeness is a social lubricant, but it’s also a chance to smooth off the edges and be the best you can be.
To be polite is to demonstrate your capabilities and competencies in the best possible light.
When someone’s appraising you, you want to be sure that they see all the shine and not flaws.
To paraphrase an old saying, politeness costs nothing (but it’s worth a fortune).