Monday, 9 March 2009

Everyone Loves A Loser

The call’s been made. We came a close second.
No cigar.
So what do we do? Take the phone off the hook and head for the nearest bar?
Of course not. This is no time to be drowning our sorrows.
Or making excuses.
At this point, it’s time for a commercial break.
Please read David Kean’s ‘How not to come second’. Genius!
http://www.amazon.co.uk/How-Not-Come-Second-Business/dp/1904879624
He knows all the excuses in the world, and he explodes every single one of them.
Right, where was I? That’s right – how to deal with rejection.
I honestly believe that some of the best opportunities come out of a failed pitch. There are always deals to be done – especially when the client bothers to call and say “We loved you but...”
Listen to the ‘but’. Learn from it. And figure out what other opportunities to exist.
You’re already talking about how great you are, so turn that into something.
Ask about other projects, develop the relationship and build something durable.