Wednesday 15 April 2009

Look 'Em In The Eye

This is a small point, but important.
Studies have shown that of all communications, 7% happens in spoken words, 38% happens through voice tone and 55% happens via general body language.
Practically, of course, this doesn’t work. For instance, can you watch a person speaking in a foreign language and understand 93%?
The important point however is not up for debate - it’s not just words that count.
Most communication comes through the non-verbal.
So brush up on your body language skills, not only how you project yourself, but in terms of being able to read other people’s.
Life is like a giant game of Texas Hold ‘Em. If you have any "tells", someone’s going to see them, recognise them and react to them.
After all, if your non-verbal signals contradict what you’re saying, people will know instantly to stop listening.
We all know the simple ones, arms folded, touching your own face.
Above all, make eye contact.
Even if, like me, only one of yours works.