Are you wearing your vest?
Are you sure you’re eating enough?
We’ve all heard it.
In fact, some of us have said it.
To our mums and dads, we never really grow up.
Even in your forties, you can still be someone’s little boy or girl.
It’s annoying, but that’s what families are for.
What I can’t understand, is why we do the same thing to colleagues.
We have a fixed view of the people around us, usually based on that all-important first role.
No matter how many years ago that was, we can’t quite shake off the way we tagged them.
It’s really important that we learn to focus on the people they are now,
rather than the people they once were.
By constantly dragging them back to the role they once held we are holding them back.
It doesn’t matter if it’s meant as a sign of familiarity or affection.
Let them grow up.